Okay so here's the thing. So there is this date dance coming up for the institute and i have a lot of friends that normally come with me to the dance so what do i do? I get them a date. i have almost set them all up...but then there leaves me...ops forgot to get myself a date. and to make it better i have no idea who i can even ask. or if anyone is planning on asking me...then i remember wait i was in this SAME position last year! and its makes me realize that i do this ALL THE TIME!!!! I have no probalem setting thenm up but i now makes since why i dont really even date anyone because im always finding someone last min. and it never means anything to either of us. So im wondering if you think that i should be more selfish and try and date for myself. i think i should but i dont know help me out here thanks love you all!!!
<3 Charly Paige
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dude! what happened to chris? i'll ask him to ask you...for heaven sakes...find yourself a date woman!!
yeah um thats wont ever work lets be honest
Ok, so basically everyone thinks that by setting other people up they are somehow doing something to better themselves. However, if thought about correctly, people ought to do things for themselves. You should be finding dates for yourself, just as your friends should be finding dates for themselves. Yes, lots of us have had that friend, set up a relationship for us, and maybe it worked out, maybe it didn't. Eventually, we all have to go out into the world and cut our own path through the woods. That's what your friends need to be doing. If anything, the dates you are helping set up could be holding them back from their own path. So, in essence, don't feel as if you are being selfish, you are just letting your friends be independent, and being so yourself.
so im independent already did you miss that part where i set myself up?
Hey girlie,
I think that it's great that you've set up so many people to go to the dance. I'd say maybe limit the number of people you set up, maybe just your closest friends and then leave yourself enough time to find a date for yourself.
OR
Find a date for yourself first and then set up whoever you can!
It's a compromise!
~Holly
yeah thats kinda the plan...the second one i mean its...yeah more then this ill explain sometime maybe
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